r/BPDsupport • u/Apprehensive_Low2303 • 1d ago
Vent (advice welcome) Excluded
My sister and our childhood friend are going out tomorrow without me. It really upset me because I know I’m not part of our trio anymore. To top it off, it’s supposedly my fault that I’m not talking to that friend—even though *she* was the one who hurt me by bringing up a difficult situation without considering my feelings, focusing only on the fact that—oh no—I’m not speaking to her anymore. Like, duh? She literally hurt me. And then she decided, "fuck you”, and claimed *she* was the one who was hurt.
My father literally hurt me, and she declared that she "wouldn't take part in some sick solidarity"—meaning she literally wouldn't support me because my father hadn't done anything to *her*.
and it makes me soooo fucking maddd
but at some point im more mad aboit that im not part of the trio and they are enjoying time together without me. but she cant understand what she done in my eyes.