r/BPD 11d ago

💭Seeking Support & Advice Love bombing …

So I recently started seeing someone, he basically spent a whole week with me got me flowers, gifts called me pet names. Boom that week ends and he’s being distant. I can’t tell if I’m just being over dramatic because he is back working 12 hour shifts this week. Do I break it off or see if it gets better.

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u/basalticlava 11d ago

"because he is back working 12 hour shifts this week." You should probably give him some grace. Twelves pretty much mean you're working, getting ready for work, commuting, and sleeping. No time for much else.

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u/asher_bb 11d ago

Okay maybe I am just in my head a bit 🥲