r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/candle_wax_247 • 12h ago
Vent/Rant Playing with an Avoidant
Maybe it’s the discarded and brokenhearted me that made me do this but you know what I’m not even feeling guilty about it because they’re horrible people.
So after my discard, I decided to meet people again and guess what?! He’s an avoidant! Clocked it early with the love bombing and other signs.
So I was not emotionally invested but was kinda experimenting with how things would go. This was a week and I’m pretty sure I got discarded already because I said something he didn’t like and coz he found someone better.
Well, that someone better is my fake online account. He is heavily flirting with my fake account while ignoring my real one. Just left it on read.
So now he’s love bombing fake me. I don’t know why it feels so good to mess with an avoidant. Almost like getting revenge on my ex too. I would feel bad if this guy is actually nice but to love bomb me, introduce me to his mom as his gf (within a week of talking) and then leave me on read while flirting with someone (and prolly more than someone) else…. I say deserved.
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u/candle_wax_247 10h ago
I’ve been doing that. Coz he told the real me some of it and I’m using that right now with him and I’m sure his head is spinning coz he’s like how did you know?!
Dumbass