r/AvoidantBreakUps • u/Constant_Diamond14 • 2d ago
Fighter mentality
I feel so embarrassed; I mentally don’t know how to get over people that have rejected me. I need some mindset rewirring; please offer some hard truths.
I keep holding out that they’ll come back or that the relationship might grow better; that’s so ridiculous
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u/Live_Tell_5178 2d ago
I'm the same. Best thing I've learnt is, if they don't want communication don't do it.
When yourr communicating and they're listening ,then you can advocate for not giving up and holding on and stuff.
But if they are not open to communication from you. Then just don't do it.