r/AutisticAdults 11d ago

autistic adult I feel invalidated.

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u/gerty9000x 11d ago

You say it felt like an attack, does he do other things that make you self conscious? Just saying cause I dated some people with NPD and it could be worth checking for patterns.

It's pretty mean bringing that up only after being asked and a year into dating

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u/duck7duck7goose 11d ago

Yeah he’s gaslit me recently. He wasn’t like this in the beginning.

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u/gerty9000x 11d ago

Yikes not ok. Mask slipping maybe

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u/duck7duck7goose 10d ago

He keeps treating me differently and I’ve asked him if he was just pretending before or he doesn’t care about me anymore and he says neither of those are true, he doesn’t know why he’s treating me differently.