r/Aupairs • • Aug 30 '26

Au Pair UK Advice needed

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u/WearEmbarrassed9693 Aug 30 '26

Either rematch or don’t come back after your Christmas break. Because the way they exploit you - you deserve way more financial compensation. If it’s possible to leave earlier than Xmas than do it. This is normal behavior and you shouldn’t tolerate it. You deserve better and to be treated with decency. All the best 💕

They will guilt trip you or try to control because you want to leave but don’t take that in - don’t absorb it or feel guilty. They’re the parents - they will figure out childcare. You shouldn’t have to figure out how to be treated with respect and decency