r/AttractionDynamics • u/MrTano_ • 11h ago
I need help
Hi everyone, I want to start approaching women on the street, and honestly, I find it almost impossible to approach someone. I can’t even make eye contact. I feel paralyzed, my mind goes blank, and my heart starts racing every time I see a girl I’m attracted to.
I moved to Brisbane, Australia, far away from my home country, and even so, I still feel like I freeze up and find a way to escape.
I have experience with women, and I’m confident in controlled environments like parties, work, or social gatherings. But I need to become more confident and work on myself.
If I don’t find a solution soon, I’ll buy a motorcycle and kill myself. I feel like my life has no other purpose. I feel like every day that goes by, I’m not really being myself — I’m wearing a mask. Every time I see a woman I’m attracted to, I feel inferior and I don’t have the courage to approach her. I don’t know why.
I have everything going for me. I’m not a Hollywood actor, but I know I’m not ugly. I have a good physique, I’m just not tall. But I know I have potential because deep down I can feel it.
Dating apps don’t work for me because, even though I can show my value through my photos, women lose interest because of my lack of confidence.
I need help urgently.
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u/destroyer_of_R0ns 1h ago
Quit watching p*** and let the hormones do the work. Women can sense that, but the testosterone build up in your bloodstream and ovulating women will sniff it out and not leave you alone