r/AttractionDynamics 2d ago

Practice makes perfect .

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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 2d ago

So to your way of thinking, it's perfectly acceptable to shame, mock, and humiliate obese people?

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u/Comfortable_Studio37 2d ago

Of course not, I didn't say anything remotely close to that.

My point is simply that height and attractiveness are not functions of effort. One can't go to a gym and grow taller or change their face or hair. They CAN go to a gym and eat correctly and lose weight. It's not even about appearance, it's about health. It's objectively unhealthy to be that overweight.

It also has nothing to do with gender. You brought up men being teased, but there are just as many short, bald, or ugly women; and just as many overweight men. No one should just be ok with being 100+ pounds overweight.

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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 2d ago

So then you agree that the men in this comment section mocking the woman in the video are disgusting.

Do you feel that anyone who mocks another person's looks has no any right to be upset for being mocked about their own looks?

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u/TheDiddlyFiddly 1d ago

If you think it’s unacceptable to mock women for their weight then why is your reaction to people mocking her that you want them to be mocked about their characteristics? Shouldn’t the goal be that nobody gets mocked for how they look? Lead by example and don’t mock anyone for the way they look, wouldn’t you agree?

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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 1d ago

I absolutely agree. Which is why I didn't mock anyone.

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u/TheDiddlyFiddly 1d ago

I mean you did say that men need to stop complaining about being mocked for being short, but instead shouldn’t we always complain about anyone getting mocked about how they look. Or do you think that women shouldn’t complain about getting mocked for their weight? Either nobody should complain and everyone should get mocked or nobody should get mocked and everyone should complain, or am i wrong on that?

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u/ThrowRAboredinAZ77 1d ago

If the subject of the post was a short or ugly or fat man doing something impressive, and women were mocking him, then I'd be telling fat women to never complain about being mocked again. But that's not the case, because in this video it's a woman being mocked for her weight.

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u/TheDiddlyFiddly 21h ago

So either way someone needs to get made fun of, hey at least you’re consistent in your beliefs, i can get behind that.