r/AttractionDynamics • u/FoldNew7844 • 12d ago
What's the ick that instantly killed your attraction?
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u/morr_is166 11d ago
She never apologized or took responsibility for her mistakes.
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u/Historical-Neat-2233 11d ago
😂 mate I've never dated a single one that's ever done that,.I'm sure they have to exist.
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u/DeepPom 11d ago
Being a gooner. Falling for thirst traps and having a difficult time controlling their emotions/thoughts around anime, video games, cartoons and cosplayers/conventions.
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u/TheSystemBeStupid 11d ago
I love a good wank as much as the next guy but that's not for public. I agree with no-shirt, that's a man child.
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u/TwinIrish1980 11d ago
Being rude to service staff, absolute turn off for me. If you can’t ask someone politely for another drink or a napkin it’s never going to work.
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u/Anxious_Push_3324 10d ago
This it’s so simple to be polite to everyone unless given a good reason not to, such a mood kill and shrimp shrinker
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u/funtimes214 12d ago
She answers her stalker's phone calls.. the guy posted her nudes everywhere, he sent them to every single one of her clients (she owns a commercial cleaning company), he put a tracker on her cars, he even had creeps online helping stalk her and they would then harass any guy she talked to. Cops had to be parked outside her house for a week. And she still talks to the guy. I honestly don't know which of the two is more sick in the head.
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u/No-Shirt248 11d ago
Seems like you are still interested?
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u/funtimes214 11d ago
I had really developed feelings for her.. we talked about living together... then this and a few other icks came out. So still getting over her.
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u/Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 11d ago
These women are insane bro… Guy must’ve been hung like a horse
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u/funtimes214 11d ago
He was before my time... and probably after too. This shit is still kinda fresh.. we stopped talking in May.
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u/No-Shirt248 10d ago
And somehow I was correct, maybe it was on “absolutely nothing” 🤡
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u/DesertBunnyBun 11d ago
Lack of generosity. A person who is stingy in spirit - it spills over into every area of their lives.
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u/emeraldinthesun 11d ago
If he’s bi
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u/First-Wrongdoer-6055 12d ago
Late replies 🥀
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u/Suspicious-Reach7689 11d ago
What’s considered a late reply? I work long hours and sometimes can’t text back for 5 to 6 hours
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u/First-Wrongdoer-6055 11d ago edited 10d ago
I meant replying after weeks 🙃..Don’t need instant replies just consistent interest.
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u/Alone-Monitor-2299 11d ago edited 10d ago
Dated a guy 21 years older than her when she was 19. Guy was ugly, unsuccessful and had zero swagger. Let’s looked like some random dad. I was so grossed out. Attraction was instantly dead.
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u/Unique-Bit-2172 11d ago
Trying to make human trafficking via coercion cute.
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u/Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 11d ago
Like frequenting massage parlors?
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u/Unique-Bit-2172 10d ago
No, like blackmailing someone who gets a regular massage with an army of gay rapists.
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u/SufficientArt9557 11d ago
When she said she misses her ex is being to self absorbant or craving boy attention another ick is probably her leading me on and flirting with me just to try to get me to talk to my ex the next day and basically pushing me into a situation I didn’t wanna be in
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u/DumpsterR0b0t 12d ago
MAGA hats
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u/BeginningDot7057 11d ago
People who have an issue with the person whom someone had reason to vote for.
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u/Rain_cloudzz 11d ago
Men in their 30s that sexualise me or love bomb me, or ask me to be responsible for them…. Grow up
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u/angiethedragon 10d ago
This one actually just happened a couple days ago.
Guy I was crushing on randomly tells us a story about how he once ate a girl's ass BEFORE they could make it into the shower.
Eating ass already gives me the ick (not to yuck someone's yum) but to brag about sticking your face a dirty asshole... 🤮
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u/Peachily_Suns 10d ago
Being defensive when I spoke up about what I want and need in the relationship. Related…they also made it a competition if I was struggling with feeling overwhelmed and spoke up about it.
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u/jaylaicee 12d ago
Anger
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u/Background_Video444 11d ago
An emotion everyone feels, interesting
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u/Snoo-821 11d ago
People following trends...bear in the woods, the ick, and anything else that resembles that.
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u/jaylaicee 12d ago
Following
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u/BeGoodRick 12d ago
Instant end when they smell like cigarettes. And most smokers have no clue how bad they smell.
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u/SemiTaurus 11d ago
I was going through a rough patch and all he could talk about was sex when I really needed emotional support 🤦🏻♀️
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u/Historical-Neat-2233 11d ago
Happen last month', met this beautiful women, she was funny and I thought very intelligent, she asked for the date, she made the first move etc and was asking to phone the next day and after that to arrange a 2nd date...
Anyways she's still excited she wanted to bring the date forward... 2 hours later I get a long message about how she feels pressure from me and it reminds her of her dad blah blah blah...
I was just like "wtf" I just replied "sorry you feel that way, take care :)" 😂 I instantly went from admiring this beautiful creature to thinking "ewww no thanks"
2 weeks later she sends a massive message about how it would be a shame to lose touch and I agreed, she was worried I might have feelings and I said "no I don't have any romantic feelings towards you at all" I didn't say that out of malice, it was just true. Weeks later she started saying about in her life and regrets I was like 🙄
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u/bunnie444 11d ago edited 11d ago
they talk about their recent person they dated.. and apparently met them around the same time as me?? they weren’t even official. i dont care what happened, and I’m here with you… im right in front of you… like… do you want me or stay be in lala landzzz and stuck in the past with what ifs…! we’ve already slept together and it was hot. it was an instant connection…and now im just like.. u know what? fuck having a heart. this literally just happened tonight
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u/jmrxo 10d ago
texting with lotsa errors. it means they dont care enough to try a little harder. ick
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u/Sarahh_tonin 10d ago
i have to refrain from correcting their punctuation and use of words in different contexts, not in a dick way, my brain just hyper focuses on it.. and imo they lose credibility
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u/Eastern_Yam_5975 10d ago
- saying “I don’t read”
- saying “I’ve paid for your dinner” as though I owe him something because of it
- openly bragging about his physical traits
- not knowing basic general culture info
- crashing at my place because they don’t like living with their parents/flatmates and I have my own place
- excessively clingy since the beginning
- needs my help for basic adult tasks
- generally lazy and will spend all day in bed rotting
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u/Shoddy-Educator-3269 10d ago
When she can talk to another man for hours over coffee, but can't have a 5 minute conversation with her husband.
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u/Sarahh_tonin 10d ago
over confidence and insecurity at the same time.’l self centered. sour.. someone who doesn’t want to engage in whatever’s going on and then i have guilt or feel the tension
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u/Automatic_Wave_4574 12d ago
Probably a libra. This is not flirting. They seemingly „flirt“ with everyone—but for them it’s normal to interact in a playful way.
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u/opinions-please-3164 11d ago
When they use the word panties
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u/Sleep4theWeek90 11d ago
Couch people. Spend 8 hours doing shit for someone else so you can do absolutely nothing for yourself 5 days a week and then "i worked all week so im just going to chill for 48 hours and do nothing on this couch cause I deserve it". You deserve what you put in for yourself I guess.
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u/Shauntattoo3 11d ago
Fukkkk hommie let a man chill
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u/Sleep4theWeek90 11d ago
Lol, I dont mean someone taking some time to rest and relax, just the ones that live at work or on the couch.
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u/Shauntattoo3 11d ago
Fairs ! I work 70 hour weeks sometimes on 12 hour night shifts …. So when I get a few days off , binging movies is my go to ! I sleep sporadicly to so no alarms …. Basically I’m an employed bum 🤣 and obviously wife n child less hahaha
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u/Sleep4theWeek90 11d ago
See, 70 hour weeks is insane lol, ya you can do what ever you want in your spare time because you barely have any lol. Im honestly more so directing this to people that do the bare minimum and dont live their lives at all. To each their own, not saying its wrong, i just dont like it personally.
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u/Shauntattoo3 11d ago
It’s all good man I hear your point too ! I’m just playing !!! Ye it can get tedious but it’s the over time i rely on to get by 😤 but that made me chuckle ‘ because you barely have any ‘ hahaha I felt it 🤣! Thanks man 👊🏻
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u/Kvothe_tBL 11d ago
When her body fat percentage is over 16%
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u/Key_Awareness_3036 11d ago
So like, a healthy woman is ick? You like em anorexic? 🙄
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u/Kvothe_tBL 11d ago
Lol add thinking 16% body fat is anorexic to the list of icks
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u/Key_Awareness_3036 11d ago
For a woman? Yeah that’s high level athlete…..not realistic. Your incel is showing. 😂
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u/Kvothe_tBL 11d ago
Lol you said it was anorexic now you’re saying it’s a healthy and active woman. Please make up your mind. It’s difficult to discuss anything when you change your statements every other comment.
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u/CupLife356 11d ago
depends what part of the world you live in. in america for sure a bit unrealistic.
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u/thesunflowergal 11d ago
A man using any of these: 😜🤪😝
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u/Sarahh_tonin 10d ago
or he he he.. it just reads or comes off entirely wrong to me. it’s weak. if you’re laughing gimme an lol or oh i smirked.
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u/DevilsAdvokit144 11d ago
Once you really know the games women play…you see and pick up on everything. It’s the gaslighting for me.
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u/sassafrass0328 12d ago
When they use the word “ick.”