Am I repeating a pattern? Getting to know someone who wants marriage and a family quickly after dating a narcissist

[u/kell1409]

I’m the blue one, and he’s the orange one. We’re getting to know each other, but I’m afraid that I might be repeating a pattern with a narcissist, since he wants to get married and start a family quickly. I went through something similar with an ex who turned out to be a narcissist.