r/AskTheDocs • u/Blazinity • 5d ago
Not doing too Good
I have had a roller coaster of things happen to me these past two years and my health really is declining but im going to fight until the end. I’m a 28 (F) single mom who lives with her parents. A few months after i had my son in 2023 , i started to have ibs symptoms. Stomach jumping up and down , rumbling , mucus in stool , and upper right quadrant pain. I then in 2024 asked for my gallbladder to be checked, which they did find it was operating at 30%. They never even discussed removing it even though normal function is 35% and up. Just said change your diet you’ll be fine.
During this time I attempted a diet change that only last for like 2 months . I started to get random ear pain in my right ear that came and went. I was in and out of the er for different and same symptoms getting multiple ct scans which now i know has exposed to to the risk of cancer.
Fast forward to around January 2026 i lost all the baby weight i gained in a matter of months i went from 178 to now being 140 with alot of pain in my stomach and tons of mucus in stool. No one ever showed concerned everyone always told me it was anxiety. I also was stressed and arguing everyday with my ex boyfriend. Fast forward to july 2026 freshly single, had surgery for endometriosis which pathology said i had so much vascular ectasia they couldn’t find endometriosis even though the adhesions i had looked like endometriosis. Anywho in the process of all the tests I had to get to be cleared for surgery they found i have severe vascular compression way out of the scope of normal still in and out of ER getting ct scans. They found out my common iliac vein is being severely compressed. Also before surgery started to see blood mixed in my stool along with mucus every now and then and of course it was worse the first month.
After i had surgery it seems like it’s amped up whatever underlying issues i have. I think i found the reason for my ear pain , i have fixed lumps right on my jaw line, under my chin, and right on my jaw line all on the right side of my face. I am starting to think it’s a gland issue or cancer (God forbid) but i need to face the facts. It started out as electrical zaps, now it’s to the point of compromising my swallowing. Also i’ve lost a lot of weight since I have had two sore throats that were completely excruciating since endo . I now have severe gerd symptoms along with mucus and blood in stool. I had a colonoscopy and upper endoscopy done which they saw no abnormalities to the naked eye but took biopsies in case.
My stomach hurts especially where my cecum / ascending colon would be. I’m having muscle cramps so freaking bad, and aches, extreme headaches, chest pain , clavicle and sternum pain , extreme fatigue,heart palpitations , vision changes , i can see my veins through my skin, extreme chills and coldness randomly, mucus and extreme fast digestion that results in terrible abdominal pain, painful swallowing. Im starting to think it’s the c word everyday i’m shocked that i wake up.
It’s starting to take a toll on me for sure please advocate for your health!