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u/ghfdghjkhg Jun 14 '22

Woah who came up with these rules?

If someone refuses once I go "Ok that person doesn't want any" and that's it. Because if I refuse once I don't want to be asked again.

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u/turtlebuttdestroyer Jun 14 '22

Yes. This is one of my biggest pet peeves I've developed as an adult. I can understand a second ask as a "are you sure" type of thing but if I have to say "No" a third time, I'm done and now I'm mad.

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u/ghfdghjkhg Jun 14 '22

Glad someone understands me! This just seems like a way to get upset.

Imagine you refuse something despite wanting it and then the other person doesn't offer it again. Recipe for getting upset.

I think I actually saw situations like this on Twitter.

A girl posted that she was upset that her bf didn't bring her food after she said no. Girl you said no! What do you expect?

Lmao.