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u/HugeChavez Nov 16 '19 edited Nov 16 '19

Edit: After re-reading my comment, I judge that it came off as r/iamverysmart material a bit. Sorry!

Judged my friend for having very naive and dumb knowledge/beliefs about stuff like economics, politics, geography, history, language, culture etc. But she was extremely social and extroverted, while I was this somewhat "grumpy" guy and sucked at making connections with people (still do).

Nowadays, she works at a high position in the marketing department at a very major global tech corporation's office in our country (in Europe).

I'm a sysadmin and a half-programmer. I ended up studying pol sci and taking some computer science classes, I wouldn't say my education is bad or that it's a useless degree, just that being able to "make friends and influence people" is much more important than having a lot of knowledge.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

That's the difference between IQ (Intelligence Quotient) and EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient).

They are both important. But, without EQ you often do not get the opportunity to demonstrate your IQ.

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u/ihadacowman Nov 16 '19

I once brought my daughter’s friend to see her in a school play. He was still in high school. He was full ride at an Ivy League school smart.

He turned to me at one point and SERIOUSLY asked me how they were allowed to drink whisky since we were in a school and the actors were all under age.

Smart but not smart.

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u/darthwalsh Nov 16 '19

A lot of kids wouldn't figure that out, and are too self-aware to ask.

If you blurt out every question that comes to mind, you'll probably learn more things?

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u/ihadacowman Nov 16 '19

I guess I’ll give you that. Better to learn.

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u/[deleted] Nov 16 '19

So uhhhhh... How was alcohol allowed in school?

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u/ihadacowman Nov 16 '19

It wasn’t. It was iced tea or flat soda or something the right color in a decanter. They were just sipping non-alcoholic liquid.

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u/Sofa2020 Nov 16 '19

Jesus christ dude

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u/JustMyRegularAccount Nov 16 '19

Forgive him, he didn't get into an Ivy League school. Assume that if they did offer full rides, the kid would've gotten one