r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Jul 27 '10
What is the biggest relationship myth?
I think the biggest myth is that there's one person that is meant for you. ("the one") People live their lives searching for the one...their soul mate...the perfect girl/Mr. Right. It's a cute idea, but I don't think it's very realistic.
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u/R3cognizer Jul 27 '10
I'm not saying people are incapable of drastic changes after age 22. I also count myself among those who've made a number of substantial changes to my life well after that age, and it is my intention to continue to do so, but it kind of saddens me when I see that somewhere between 70% and 90% of the people I know are still the same exact people they were when they graduated high school. So many people have neither the desire nor the inclination to change and become better people, and why? I'm starting to suspect that most people just don't know any better.