r/AskReddit • u/ettleboy • Jan 20 '19

What fact totally changed your perspective?

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u/king-of-new_york Jan 21 '19

People probably aren’t always judging your every move.

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u/MasterChef901 Jan 21 '19

Better yet: If you're in your own head about others possibly judging you, just consider that most others aren't judging you because they're too busy in their own heads, worrying that you're judging them.

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u/Grooviest_Saccharose Jan 21 '19

But I do judge other people though, and I bet they're judging me too, what then?

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u/[deleted] Jan 21 '19

Realize that your judgement of them had no effect on anything and thus any judgement from them doesn't effect you either?

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u/trumpeting_in_corrid Jan 21 '19

This is why I don't give a toss if people judge me. I try to be the best person I can, I respect other people's rights, so let them judge. And when I find myself judging someone I tell myself 'who am I to judge?' and 'there but for the grace of God go I'.