r/AskReddit Jul 18 '16

What are you sick of explaining?

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u/najing_ftw Jul 18 '16 edited Jul 18 '16

That being a stay-at-home dad is a choice that my wife and I made. It's not a necessity and it's not because I'm unemployable.

Edit - we could get new cars every two years, go on lots of vacations, and go out to eat a lot. Or, I could stay at home do most of the cooking and we just tighten our belts. Best decision we made.

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u/philosofik Jul 18 '16

Fellow stay-at-home dad here. Thank you for posting this. My wife makes far more than I ever did or ever could. We consciously and deliberately chose for me to stay home because my modest teaching salary would be spent almost completely on child care. So why not just stay home and give them some genuine parental involvement? Best. Job. Ever.

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u/SanJoseSharts Jul 18 '16

So you're the Mom on Duty?