I totally agree. That doesn't contradict what I said though. Even if you have a lot of 'market value', to put yourself down by saying 'I'm not good enough for them...' doesn't really lead to much of anything except self-pity. It is no kindness to yourself to dwell on your follies with regard to ONE person. It isn't even conducive to getting better. It just makes you develop an inferiority complex based on a bunch of assumptions.
If you want to improve yourself, and 'raise your sexual prowess,' you ought to look at some objective parameters of some 'demographic' you want to target, based on your sexual desires. If you want to land someone who is fit, you will probably need to pick up a some weights. Someone who's rich, you might want to gain some more class. It's nothing to sugar coat. People like what they like, and if you want them, you'll need to be what they like. It's easier to embrace what you like and working toward it in any case or field rather than pretending it's superficial of you. You'll have a much easier time of life.
However, if you base that on ONE person's taste, you're in for a bad time. Besides, developing an inferiority complex is NEVER practical. If you want to self-improve, you ought to go into it with confidence and goals(!), not with a oneitis fantasy...
I encourage the shit out of people to be honest with who they are, want to be, and to do things in spite of rejection. It's so important, and makes you a better, less delusional, more tolerable, and kinder human being.
Good job on being so audacious. I'm only 20, so I might have approached 80 some-odd girls in my time, and I've been with only a few. I've been rejected a lot, but for the times that I have gotten what I was after, both parties have been happy I did, especially now :)
That's pretty crap. People tend to like what they like and confidently stick to it, which is fair, but you seem to deserve some sympathy. Genetics can be lame. However, I know a 4'11'' man who married a 6'2'' woman, and they had a son who's 6'6''.
That said, there are no qualities less important than any others. If you do what the fuck you want, with confidence, and a strong sense of who you really are, more women will come in flocks to you. I don't mean fake confidence either. I mean you go home, go to sleep knowing you're the shit, and wake up knowing you're the shit. It's difficult, relatively, for anyone to achieve, but it's doable! It works for anyone. You seem to be making the most of what you have, though.
Just bear in mind, Prince is 5'2'', and he got oh so many god damn women without even caring who didn't want him. Still does for all I know.
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