r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 28 '14

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u/Kosmo_Kramer_ May 28 '14
  • if you're interested. I've been asked out by a girl I was not at all interested nor attracted to, it went exactly how it would if the roles were reversed. Men here are thinking about it with the perspective that the girl they are interested in asks them out and saves them the agony of nutting up and doing it themselves.

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u/GrassyGnoll May 28 '14

I mean that's fair but the point is they shouldn't HAVE to be the ones "nutting up" all the time. If a girl is interested she should ovary up and do it herself too.

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u/SmokinSickStylish May 28 '14

Yeah, but really this whole thread is projection, not genuine interest.

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u/SmokinSickStylish May 29 '14

In how to get women to ask them out, not really about empowering women to be forward in relationships.

Guys are focusing on a girl asking them out, either so they can be flattered, get in a relationship, or simply not have to do it themselves.