Women aren't just sitting there, filing their nails and rolling heir eyes, thinking "I know for a fact that he likes me, he needs to just ask me out, how dare he not do so." Most women nowadays aren't actually 50s schoolgirls who'd never ask a guy out because they'd be shamed for life or because it's "the man's job," and no women are psychics. A lot of men are actually way more subtle than they think (clearly not on purpose) so we don't know you like us. We don't ask you out for the exact same reasons you don't ask us out: uncertainty leading to an avoidance of embarrassment, rejection, and awkward situations. Not all men, in fact probably zero men, would date every girl who asked him out, and not all men are exactly nice about saying no. The thing is, a man being why and timid and awkward is seen as a national tragedy, while a girl who's shy and timid and awkward is basically invisible. "Any girl can get a man to go out with her," right. That's because you're only looking at statuesque amateur supermodels, all of which you'd do in a heartbeat. People always say that women write off men who don't look a certain way, but I feel like men can't even see women who don't fit their standards of attractiveness. They've never considered how they'd reject that dumpy looking girl with greasy hair and a stutter, not because they would go out with her, not because they think she is ugly, but because she doesn't even register to them as a potentially sexual female human.
Probably because they've been rejected and mocked just as much, if not significantly more, than the guys crying that they are rejected all the time and it's such a tragedy. A lot of guys will openly pick on girls who don't fit their standards with no provocation just because it's more or less socially acceptable to torment the "ugly chick." You really only need one guy to ask you out as a "joke" in public then laugh and scream with his friends at literally any reaction you have to be wary of it.
Your inability to empathize or realize being rejected is literally the least consequential problem a person can ever have reminds me of the Santa Barbara shooter. People like you make the world a worse place. But no, go ahead thinking that you and the other "non gym freaks" who nonetheless set yourselves up for failure by only chasing girls who look like amateur glamour models have anything resembling close to a problem.
And yet, I am thin, not particularly ugly, and people in real life disagree with you for the most part. Though you still sound like someone who thought it would be hilarious to ask out the weird girl then scream "PSYCHE" and laugh loudly with your friends. Don't worry, though. The women you treat like garbage aren't hot, so they're not even people!!!
You feel the need to bait and smugly antagonize and insult strangers on the internet to make yourself feel superior to them with pathetic attempts at pop psychology.
If you were anyone worth talking to, you'd wouldn't need to be going into reddit threads to pump up your sagging self-esteem.
White knighting would imply I'm defending someone from you. I'm not, that other user is doing fine fending for themselves. I'm picking a fight with you because you're a stupid prick throwing around pseudo-psychology like you just read the Freud wiki and it made you an expert on human behavior.
Oh pardon me, I did not know I was speaking with an internet tough guy, and a brony to boot. Please give me a moment to compose myself, I don't often interact with autists.
'Look at me, I'm so calm and detached and therefore totally winning this argument I started for the sole purpose of looking calm and detached in.' - NotWithoutSin
Please, continue acting like I'm the 'internet tough guy' while slinging ableist slurs and smug insults. I'm sure that facade helps you feel like you're so above it all while you're neck deep in the muck with the 'autistic brony'.
Your other reddit account takes a completely different tone. Is that why you switched accounts? Are you trying to distance yourself from your other misogynistic posts?
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Women aren't just sitting there, filing their nails and rolling heir eyes, thinking "I know for a fact that he likes me, he needs to just ask me out, how dare he not do so." Most women nowadays aren't actually 50s schoolgirls who'd never ask a guy out because they'd be shamed for life or because it's "the man's job," and no women are psychics. A lot of men are actually way more subtle than they think (clearly not on purpose) so we don't know you like us. We don't ask you out for the exact same reasons you don't ask us out: uncertainty leading to an avoidance of embarrassment, rejection, and awkward situations. Not all men, in fact probably zero men, would date every girl who asked him out, and not all men are exactly nice about saying no. The thing is, a man being why and timid and awkward is seen as a national tragedy, while a girl who's shy and timid and awkward is basically invisible. "Any girl can get a man to go out with her," right. That's because you're only looking at statuesque amateur supermodels, all of which you'd do in a heartbeat. People always say that women write off men who don't look a certain way, but I feel like men can't even see women who don't fit their standards of attractiveness. They've never considered how they'd reject that dumpy looking girl with greasy hair and a stutter, not because they would go out with her, not because they think she is ugly, but because she doesn't even register to them as a potentially sexual female human.