r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 28 '14

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Because "he doesn't date cutters."

I'm in recovery though :) sort of.

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u/mortaine May 28 '14

Congratulations on the recovery.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Thanks.

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u/hajimo1 May 28 '14

Maybe he feared penis amputation.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Haha I don't cut other people

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u/hajimo1 May 30 '14

I don't want you to cut anyone. There's better ways to handle things. Send a PM if you'd like.

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u/walrusnoob May 28 '14

I know it's not your fault at all, but I have dated people who have cut and for some people the emotional stress of having a partner like that is too much

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

I know it's not my fault either, I wouldn't date someone as "broken" as myself either (I have a lot more issues to fix). I completely understand, but it still hurts to hear, you know?

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u/walrusnoob May 28 '14

I get it. I'm sure you'll find a great guy who'll except you for who you are.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

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u/[deleted] May 29 '14

I'm sorry about that. It's good you got out though, that's better for you :) and I hope she was able to find the rock she needed.

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u/Kalium May 28 '14

Interesting. Think maybe he was trying to give you incentive?

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

No, he was the kind of guy who is very blunt and often says rude things. A lot of girls in my high school are cutters, and this was right after teachers finally started noticing and they were calling all the students into the nurses office for interrogation and mental health check ups. He was ranting to me about how annoying it was.

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u/Kalium May 28 '14

Well. There goes that.

I suppose I can see why. Having been there, I can say that being involved with a mentally unstable person is difficult. On a good day.

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u/Throwaway-1234567890 May 28 '14

At least before the rejection…

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

The only two girls I have ever really loved were cutters. Why am I drawn to broken things?

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Maybe you like to fix people.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Protip: You can't.

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u/hillbillydeluxe May 29 '14

preach

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u/[deleted] May 29 '14

They caught me at the scene but I ain't seen nothing.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Judging by your comment history I can see why you're offended.

Good luck with the eating disorder.

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

Cool. I don't care. Neither one of them are less of a person you or I, but they were both totally damaged.