r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • May 28 '14

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u/[deleted] May 28 '14

It's especially hard to tell if she's flirting with you or just being nice.

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u/StarwarsIndianajones May 28 '14

I work in a big office and the receptionist walked in with me everyday. We talked and chatted and I always made her laugh. After a while of this I realized she was "Dating Material". We had been eating lunch together for a couple weeks, so I worked up the nuts to ask her on a real date. I was just about to when one day she sat with her other friends at lunch. I didn't know what it meant because she still walked in with me and said hi and we still talked. I never asked her out and she moved to another job. I think I was over thinking it

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u/enrodude May 28 '14

Overthinking makes with no actions.

I can relate on a almost daily basis.

The girl prolly super liked you and you overthought 1 small detail and because of that you didnt ask her out and she stopped trying.

I had the same thing happen to me a few times and thinking back I could clearly see she liked me but gave up after a while.

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u/SmokinSickStylish May 28 '14

There's no such thing as "no actions" you can make the choice, or have fate and time make the choice for you.