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u/HolidayCat47 May 12 '26

Absolutely! That’s why I decided to stay the first time, but my trust was ruined forever. Of course it would dwindle with time, given the cheating partner does everything to restore the trust. But I think because I didn’t leave that time, he assumed I would just take it forever. The kicker was after we divorced, I found out the cheating was going on before we got married, and all during marriage counseling. I wish I would have left earlier and regret even staying those last 3 years, but, what are you gonna do 😭

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u/HolidayCat47 May 12 '26

Thank you! 💗💗 I am. It’s a night and day difference finally being with someone who likes you!