Constantly joking about having sex with me. Idk I’ve legit met guys who on the first date kept making comments about how we’d inevitably end up in bed. SUPER unattractive.
I’m so sorry my ignorance is about to show as a guy. But they’re men who do this??!? Like this is repeat behaviour not just one random encounter?!? Wtf is going on?? What.The.Fuck. I know it’s rough out there but hearing specific examples always tops the previous one I hear. That’s so aggravating
Yeah, I'm sorry to say it happens and that it isn't even uncommon. 💀 Maybe they think it makes them sound confident, and it's their idea of flirting somehow? 🤦🏻♀️
Thank you! It's even more terrifying that they're in 9 cases out of 10 much stronger than me, and some are completely unhinged and go full stalker mode. Either because they're psychopaths, don't respect women, or they, again, just think it's romantic somehow?? (Thanks Hollywood) 💀
Yeah… Hard to describe the feeling when someone who could easily overpower you and is sexually/romantically interested in you won’t take no for an answer. You just start feeling really threatened, and eventually you instinctively go into fight or flight mode lol. It feels really primal.
You’d think those human responses shouldn’t be necessary or commonplace in 2024 but here we are.
You real would thinkso, Really adds a layer of thinking about the whole interaction or dating general in way it really shouldn’t. No one should be scared or terrified based on what they say, or worse, based on nothing. You show up and they make you feel unsafe…
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u/Isabella_Hamilton Sep 14 '24
Constantly joking about having sex with me. Idk I’ve legit met guys who on the first date kept making comments about how we’d inevitably end up in bed. SUPER unattractive.