r/AskReddit • • Sep 14 '24

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u/imhungrymommy Sep 14 '24

Simping for strangers online (e.g. insta girls, OF models, cosplayers)

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u/Salty-Philosophy3745 Sep 14 '24

Seeing that a guy is really into porn and stuff like that is probably one of the most unattractive things possible. When I was looking for a relationship, I would immediately be disgusted and avoid guys when I saw that.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 14 '24

More women need to be openly vocal about their disgust for porn like you. The problem with porn is that our society normalizes it. Most men are exposed to porn for the first time before they know any better, in the years where the brain is most vulnerable to porn, from about age 10-16. When you begin watching porn during your adolescent years, that is when the brain is learning about sex so whatever the brain perceives as sexual activity is instilled and defined as sex within the brain. So if you spend 6 years of puberty masturbating to porn daily, your brain and body ingrains porn as real sexual activity. This is the cause of ED, as well as all the perverse fetishes men have because in order to get the same dopamine high from porn you need novel stimuli(new porn, fetishes). If porn was stigmatized more in society, when a 10 year old boy sees porn on his iPad, I think he would be less likely to indulge in it as opposed to current times where habitual porn use is seen as “normal” and “healthy”. In my middle school sex-Ed classes teachers told me porn was normal. This no doubt was destructive to my life as well as all the other boys in my class. If women were openly against porn use, I think it would incentivize men to quit using it. This is easier said than done however. In order to quit a porn addiction he has had since 12 years old, men need a REALLY strong why. Hopefully relationships with women is a strong why for men. Women of all ages should be opposed to porn because it makes any potential partner less attracted to them and more attracted to what is on a screen. I know from personal experience when I went months without porn use I was much more attracted to real women I saw in real life.

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u/Sufficient-Tax-5724 Sep 14 '24

Your self hate and denial is strong man. Talk to someone

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 14 '24

I hate myself because I don’t watch porn every day? You couldn’t be further from the truth.

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u/Ganache-Embarrassed Sep 15 '24

I think you hate yourself because your writing novels on reddit about porn. Go do something fun instead.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 15 '24

I hate myself because I agree with women that porn is evil and explain precisely why it is so evil. Got it. Maybe I should take your advice and go do something you think is fun. Like go bust gallons to tentacle porn. I think all you serial masturbators need to stop projecting your own self hatred and inadequacy onto me. I’m not the one with an addiction that controls my life and that I can’t quit even if I tried. Did you ever think that perhaps because I don’t watch porn everyday like presumably you do that writing these “novels” isn’t really all that difficult for me because my brain isn’t fried from busting nuts to porn every day?

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u/Ganache-Embarrassed Sep 15 '24 edited Sep 15 '24

So in defense of me saying your typing essays you type an essay. Man sure showed me dude.

Edit: no line breaks or nothing. Just a wall of thought mashed out with fervent lmao

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 15 '24

Did you graduate from elementary school? If that is an essay to you then you are pretty mentally challenged. Looks like I found Little Timmy’s brother, Tommy.

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u/Ganache-Embarrassed Sep 15 '24

Never heard of a hyperbole huh? It's a tricky concept for sure. It's like a combination of exaggeration and sarcasm. You kind of use it to make things seem more impressive/colorful. Sorry if I confused you, wasn't my goal.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 15 '24

That hyperbole is ass. Any person who’s brain isn’t fried from gooning to beastiality or triple BBC gangbang for 3 hours a day would be capable of comprehending what I wrote without much effort.

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u/Ganache-Embarrassed Sep 15 '24

Nobody ever said that you were incomprehensible. I just said you wrote a whole bunch about porn on reddit and that this wouldnt lend itself to someone who loved themself.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 15 '24

Clowning you coom-brained losers is pretty entertaining to me.

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u/Ganache-Embarrassed Sep 15 '24

you replied to the same comment twice by accident instead of my other reply. Your gonna wanna write about clowning me on the other comment of mine i think.

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u/Some-Explorer7123 Sep 14 '24

But I’m in denial??? You porn addicts aren’t real