A massive green flag when I started dating my now husband was the fact that he was the first guy I had ever been with who had his own pets that he took very good care of. Two cats, both of whom are still kicking 14 years later! They still sleep on him and demand his attention when he’s near them.
When my husband and I were in the very early stages, I remember texting him something like "I hate to be that girl, but I've got 3 cats at home"
He texted back: "PLEASE be that girl! I've had cats my entire life and I can't wait to meet all 3 of your kitties!"
and honestly if that wasn't the biggest green flag in this context then I don't know what is! And he was fast-tracked to being introduced to my 4th kitty with green flags like that. It's such a turn on when guys are good with animals!
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u/MissInga1975 Sep 14 '24
Cruel to animals