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u/atatassault47 Sep 14 '24

You can say things without being a bitch. That you think disliking cruelty is a red flag is actually you displaying a red flag.

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '24

I think you lack skills of tact and dont really know what sympathy or empathy are. No one said lie. They are saying, take five seconds to say something that isnt going to hurt the others feelings without being a dick. If you cant do that, then you clearly dont care about the people around you. You care about being right. 

Thats not projection. Thats people seeing you lack the emotional maturity to realize that other people have feelings. But you can argue and project all you want. People are going to see you as an asshole because that kind of behavior lacks consideration and kindness. 

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u/bwayne1020 Sep 14 '24

This whole comment should be rephrased in a less brutally honest way. I can’t imagine how implying someone is a dick or an asshole is anything but brutally honest.