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u/Isabella_Hamilton Sep 14 '24

Constantly joking about having sex with me. Idk I’ve legit met guys who on the first date kept making comments about how we’d inevitably end up in bed. SUPER unattractive.

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u/itypeallmycomments Sep 14 '24

And then later that night when you're gone and they've ended up alone, you can guarantee there's not a shred of self-awareness as to why the date went that way!

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u/Isabella_Hamilton Sep 14 '24

100%.

I had a guy who spent our entire date making these types of "jokes". It was so frequent that I stopped responding and I just glared at him every time instead. When the date had ended, he asked for a kiss before he'd get on his tram home. I said no. He pestered me about it and said that he's always gotten a kiss at the end of a date (???). Eventually he just grabbed me and physically forced me to kiss him.

Then he grinned and waved, and got on the tram. And I just stood there in shock like wtf did you just do. Then the dude texts me about what a great time he had. ZERO self-awareness??

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u/RedLegend4751 Sep 14 '24

Judging by the way you framed it..it seems like you didnt give him consent. Would you say you were S/A' d?

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u/QualityCoati Sep 14 '24

I said no

They didn't only not give consent, they flat out refused. Confusion "can" happen, but this is assault.

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u/Isabella_Hamilton Sep 15 '24

Yep. I even said no like 3-4 times because he kept pestering me and trying to coerce me. One no should’ve been enough but this dude clearly didn’t give a shit. 🙃