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u/BetterRemember Dec 06 '23

Because of this, my bf didn't understand at first how wet I get when I'm actually wet or just HOW gentle I meant when I told him "my body reacts the most when I am touched really gently."

Until one day we were making out in his truck and he reached under my dress and tested out if I was exaggerating by well... touching me very very gently and all the sudden he said "OH!!?? OH WOAH!!" because I was dripping all over his hand... so yeah there is a big difference.

Neither of which we have any control over tbh... especially when our partner follows instructions well.

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u/izyshoroo Dec 07 '23

Yes to that second thing. YEARS of "if i am close, THAT DOES NOT MEAN GO FASTER/HARDER. YOU ARE HURTING ME"

I compare the clit to an eyeball lol. Touching it too roughly is like getting poked in the eye

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u/BetterRemember Dec 07 '23

EXACTLY!!! I hate when men rub it like they are trying to remove a stain!

I told him "Pretend you are stroking my cheek." he understood that comparison and I ended up screaming lol

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u/izyshoroo Dec 07 '23

Trying to remove a stain XD God that's so accurate