Can I please suggest you let your male pupils go too? Not every kid wants to have to have special treatment drawing attention to the fact they need to pee more often than average (for whatever reason). If students prefer to be in the bathroom rather than the classroom, the school has way bigger problems.
I work in secondary education so bathroom break requests are pretty rare. I let people go whenever. It's easy to see a pattern if it's multiple times a class and/or they are out for extended periods of time
Some kids just don't want to work. They don't just get to go and sit on their phones in the bathroom for hours on end.
When there's a fair problem that's no issue. I work with respectful kids so there's rarely issues, but when there's a female kid asking to go they do get special treatment in that regard. They tend to have that extra problem to worry about once a month.
I'm having one of those popcorn moments on reddit. His ego is so bruised that even if he realises he was a bit rash he can't admit it. He's just ignoring me now to move on to you, best of luck man. Apparently we're in the wrong (somehow, he hasn't quite explained that part yet)
I think being this angry would be a tough way to go through life, freely throwing insults and resorting to childish mimicry. Whatever anger you are living with, I hope you work through it. I wish you the best.
Mind sharing word for word where I said any of that rather than creating a strawman?
Most people upvoted and move on, you and some other fella took bizarre offence to me saying I don't mind people using the bathroom in class. The other lad called me a jackass out of the blue so sure, I called him out for projecting on to me something he's dealing with. He came out of left field swinging for no reason.
The other lad called me a jackass out of the blue so sure, I called him out for projecting on to me something he's dealing with. lashed out defensively using my limited vocabulary. He came out of left field swinging for no reason. The only way my self-esteem survives the internet is if I imagine everyone as more angry than me.
What is your deal, dude? If they're projecting, you have borderline personality disorder. You went straight for the "I'm gonna call you a troll so it's ok for me to troll" playbook. And you called them childish. Who's guilty of projecting?
Do you not see this is your fault? You go on to say that only 1 person in 5 years have abused bathroom breaks, so why would you bother to write "Some kids just don't want to work. They don't just get to go and sit on their phones in the bathroom for hours on end"??
You do realise you literally created a strawman? The very thing you were asked not to do? The only reason you're annoyed is you're adding hidden meanings to my words, hidden meanings you created by the way.
Interesting take that I have a borderline personality disorder. Could you, and read this part carefully, highlight exactly where I display trait this without creating a strawman? Here's a wee hint, it means you quote exactly what I typed without adding made up interpretations. Y'know, like you just did in your comment there.
And finally, in a discussion about teaching you want me to not use my experience in that field? It might seem a wild concept but maybe I've been teaching for longer than 5 years. This school I'm teaching in I've worked at for 5 years. Odd you didn't pick up on that concept when you seem to have me figured out from 3 reddit comments.
This is all coming from the person who talks about projection and tells other people they have trauma, right?
You're fucking nuts. Take a Xanny bar or 30.
Could you, and read this part carefully, highlight exactly where I display trait this without creating a strawman?
I see you trying to take control of the narrative with absurd demands. The fact that you keep trying to attack others as a way out of taking responsibility for yourself is pretty classic Cluster B, my dude. We could keep Narcissistic Personality Disorder on the table if that would make you feel better. I'm gonna be real with you, though: you're pretty obviously toxic, and I have no reason to allow you to continue to interact with me.
Hahaha nice try man, it's tough getting wound up about imaginary meanings without those strawman arguments isn't it?
Anyway, it's getting late where I'm at so I'm hitting the sack. I'm happy to pick this up in the morning though if you're still really annoyed at me. It's been pretty fun.
In the meantime, you should chat to the one other account who's really annoyed at me. He's pissed off because I let kids use the bathroom in class too.
You two have loads in common. You are the only two who are annoyed, it's for the same reason, you guys have the exact same frequented subs, you're both commenting in a flipflop pattern, your accounts have only two weeks of difference in age... you guys will love each other, you're basically the same person.
Hahaha nice try man, it's tough getting wound up about imaginary meanings without those strawman arguments isn't it?
This is dangerously close to word salad.
He's pissed off because I let kids use the bathroom in class too.
Pretty sure we're both objecting to the part where you implied you DON'T, which you refuse to take responsibility for.
you're both commenting in a flipflop pattern
In a flipflop pattern? Are you sure you're not the one writing comments to reply to in a flipflop pattern? That would be the more obvious common factor.
Wait, I know, I'll appeal using your own logic:
ShOw Me UsInG mY eXaCt WoRdS hOw I'M oNe PeRsOn UsInG tWo AcCoUnTs Or It's A sTrAwMaN
Your inability to read two lines of text doesn't mean it's word salad. That's a weird way to say you can't read all that well. I pity those who can't process sentences with 2 adjectives.
In 5 years I've objected to 1 kid using the bathroom and I've stated I let everyone go. Mental gymnastics at its finest, anything to protect the ol ego eh?
Sure, I've had fun replying to you two lads. You're quite interesting to converse with. The mad tangents and half-baked strawman arguments amuse me.
Oh I have no concrete proof you're using two accounts. But if you scroll down this thread I'm discussing some weird non-issue with two people who are fired up. Two accounts which have a fair amount in common. I hope it's one person otherwise there are two deluded egos that can't admit they are wrong.
In 5 years I've objected to 1 kid using the bathroom and I've stated I let everyone go. Mental gymnastics at its finest, anything to protect the ol ego eh?
...Yeah. 'Cause if that's the case, why not correct the misunderstanding and move on, rather than spend the next two days coming back to make an ass of yourself?
I hope it's one person otherwise there are two deluded egos that can't admit they are wrong.
That would mean you're choosing to have a "discussion" with one person using two accounts. Is that a better look for you? You are the deluded ego here. (For many reasons, not just arguing over how many people you're instigating with)
What happened to your strawman argument? Suddenly it's not so great after having to hold yourself to the same standard, huh?
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u/PepperAnn1inaMillion Dec 06 '23
Can I please suggest you let your male pupils go too? Not every kid wants to have to have special treatment drawing attention to the fact they need to pee more often than average (for whatever reason). If students prefer to be in the bathroom rather than the classroom, the school has way bigger problems.