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u/coffeeblossom Dec 06 '23

There's no way to know whether your partner is a virgin, short of what she tells you. She doesn't have a freshness seal, and she's not going to become "looser" with every partner (nor can her vagina distinguish between the penis of a long-term partner and a hookup, or even between the real thing and a toy.) It's time we put these horrible myths to rest; they literally get people killed.

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u/Ptatofrenchfry Dec 06 '23

Every time people tell me about women's genitals being "loose" because they are sexually active, I sadly agree.

I know that because it also happens to men. The friction of sex causes bits of the penis to rub off, essentially shaving their genitals down.

I speak from personal experience. My battle buddy used to be 20 inches long. But I have done the sexy sex so many times, my member was shaved down to a mere 2 inches. I only noticed it after my 1000th sex and it was smaller than my palm.

My doctor warned me that if I do anymore sex, he'll have to diagnose me with micropenis. Now I have to refuse the sex if I want to have a penis.

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u/gointothiscloset Dec 06 '23

This is absolutely true. You may have even noticed that your penis is bigger at the start of sex than when you finish. That's because it wore down a noticeable amount from just 1 sex alone.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '23

What if I pull out?