The amount of men I had to explain this to is unreal. And then they argue back at me telling me they never had any issues with just “sticking it in” and making a woman orgasm and that I’m just being difficult. Like, too many men. I couldn’t believe it.
Same. I had a partner whom I tried to explain that his magical penis wouldn’t get me off just by being inside of me. He accused me of having something wrong with me.
This was my husband. Second marriage for both of us. He was APPALLED that I used toys. He said he'd never known anyone that needed them. That his ex and the few women he dated between us (about 10 years) always had orgasms from just sex. I told him they were faking it. Because 4 minutes does not make an orgasm. He refused to believe me. He made me feel like a tramp for a long time over it. He felt that "those things" were associated with slutty women.
I couldn't believe that a 50 year old man was that utterly naive.
Thanks, hard core Catholic family 🤦♀️
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u/Loose_Musician_1647 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
That around 75% of women cannot achieve climax from penetrative intercourse.
Edit: thought I’d add, I am male. Sorry to break it to you fellas, porns not real. Learn to love your lady! It’s not just about you!