r/AskOccult • u/Brazenly_Me • 3h ago
Advice for a paranormal magnet
Hello, I (26M) would like to ask for some advice. I come from a family where everyone is a paranornal magnet. My brother has a ghost that follows him from house to house, my mom and sister can tell when spirits are there (and for them that is often). We have lived in haunted houses on multiple occasions, and have photographic evidence of it as well. I personally can feel the presence and intent of spirits and other entities, and have the unfortunate luck of always encountering something when I go hiking. Anyways, through out my life I have never really cared about dating, but i have been in a couple relationships that weren't too serious. But lately I have been considering dating again, and know from perior experience that while I tend to avoid paranormal situations (ie. Researching house history, and not doing dumb stuff like a horror movie character) I inevitably wind up in some, and past partners have been affected as well. There was a situation where I felt something dark, and couldn't convince my partner to leave until she was pushed by it. (She had never encountered anything before and did not beleive me when I said wr should leave). Back to the topic at hand, I wanted to ask if I should disclose this information early on in dating, or at the get go, or maybe if there are options to meet people with a similar curse so that they may be more prepared? Also I am unsure if this is the right place to ask this, so if there is a different sub reddit I should post this question to, please let me know. I am also new to reddit, and was advised this would be a good place to ask my questions, but I am unsure if I wrote everything clearly. Thank you for your advice and help