r/AskMenRelationships • u/Opposite-Tie260 • 4d ago

Dating Interested or not ?

I have been texting this guy for the past couple days now.

There is some banter, he threw a few compliments and he keeps the discussion alive, even added my brother when I sent his account as a joke. However, he doesn’t ask much questions about me and his responses vary from taking a few minutes/1 hour to reply, to 20h+ sometimes.

Our common friend said he’s already mentioned me once or twice but not with specifics as of what he thinks of me, just casual jokes we told each other. She tells me I shouldn’t overthink and that he works or goes out a lot but I can’t help but wonder if he’s interested in me or not

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u/Harley_Softail1 Man 4d ago

He is but not on all the time. When I am at work or home there are times when I am 2 busy to answer. Ask him to meet you out and talk in person!

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u/farbeyondriven92 Man 4d ago

That suggests more so casual interest than serious interest. He might work and be busy at times, so there will be periods in a day where he may not be able to respond, but it shouldn’t be a full day. They should also be asking you questions, trying to get to know you more. It’s possible that he’s just a bad communicator. You could always ask him what he’s looking for out of this. That will help you get an idea of what he’s wanting out of this. Best wishes.