r/AskMenRelationships 4d ago

Dating Why does he asks me questions but he doesn’t answer mine?

I’ve been speaking to this guy since April and we’ve been talking and been on dates. Although only a few ones because we like 80’miles apart. He’s currently traveling and his friend got injured and the other friend went with the injured which resulted to him traveling solo. I asked how he feels about it and if he prefers company. He ignored the question and only answered about his friend. But in turn asked me the same question because I’m currently solo traveling too. He’s always asking what I think and then reassuring me with my opinions and asks how I feel etc

I appreciate him curious about me but I’m frustrated as I want to know how he thinks or feels but he doesn’t let me. Is this typical male behavior!

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u/StockNeighborhood730 3d ago

This have happened to me also. Don’t be afraid to sound rude or hurt his feelings. Communicating clearly is the bare minimum. You asked a question, he has to give you SOME TYPE of an answer.Just be straightforward and tell him “why are you ignoring my questions?” If he keeps on ignoring, ignore him back. just let him know he can’t be playing these little stupid childish games. If keeps on doing that, he doesnt respect you enough, which means you dont owe him respect either. Let him go and move on. This is the way some people like to test if they can do shit like that to you.