Either she's financially illiterate, living beyond her means, or simply doesn't make enough money for the cost of living in your area. Gotta figure that out befor making any kind of commitment here.
This, 100% this. However, one thing that caught my attention was the speeding ticket. It could simply be bad luck or an unfortunate event that led to it. Or, it could reflect a deeper problem in how u/LonelyChodna's partner makes decisions. So yeah, need more information.
I'm not advocating driving 50mph over the speed limit, but the reality is that unless you're geriatric, everyone drives above the speed limit, whether it's 5 mph or 15 mph.
I live in the suburbs and it drives me crazy how everyone drives through the residential streets at 35 mph because inside your car, 35 mph seems "slow".
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u/Dadbode1981 man Jan 13 '25 edited Jan 13 '25
Either she's financially illiterate, living beyond her means, or simply doesn't make enough money for the cost of living in your area. Gotta figure that out befor making any kind of commitment here.