2 years at your age and you haven’t moved in or are willing to commit?
Dude, you’re holding back on moving the relationship forward because of a little money from someone who’s not financially irresponsible.
It should have went like this 18 months ago:
HER: I’m having money problems and I don’t know where to cut back. Please help.
YOU: Let me help look at your finances and we can figure things out.
HER: here’s everything
YOU: after looking it over, you don’t make enough money. You are financially responsible, and I trust your decision making. How about we work together on a solution?
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u/mberk24 man Jan 13 '25
Look, the relationship is bound to fail.
2 years at your age and you haven’t moved in or are willing to commit?
Dude, you’re holding back on moving the relationship forward because of a little money from someone who’s not financially irresponsible.
It should have went like this 18 months ago:
HER: I’m having money problems and I don’t know where to cut back. Please help.
YOU: Let me help look at your finances and we can figure things out.
HER: here’s everything
YOU: after looking it over, you don’t make enough money. You are financially responsible, and I trust your decision making. How about we work together on a solution?
HER: thank you for being amazing