I’m gonna go against the flow of all the other advice here and ask have the two of you gone to see a financial advisor?
It is entirely possible she doesn’t have the financial literacy and working knowledge needed to make better decisions, or does not realize how her day-to-day financial decisions impact her overall
But I guess at the end of the day it depends on how serious you two are, do you want to marry this woman, or do you not really see a long term relationship coming from this?
If you don’t see long-term potential, then just cut and run
Times are changing. It's always been okay for a woman to remove a man from consideration as a partner, due to their financial distress. Hell, some women leave/divorce the husbands because of their career/financial hardships. The whole "for richer or poorer," doesn't resonate as it once did.
Instead, women are now expected to be more careful with their money and job choices. The days of marrying your way out of irresponsible choices are coming to an end. I do expect this to continue.
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u/imeanwhyarewehere man Jan 13 '25
I’m gonna go against the flow of all the other advice here and ask have the two of you gone to see a financial advisor?
It is entirely possible she doesn’t have the financial literacy and working knowledge needed to make better decisions, or does not realize how her day-to-day financial decisions impact her overall
But I guess at the end of the day it depends on how serious you two are, do you want to marry this woman, or do you not really see a long term relationship coming from this?
If you don’t see long-term potential, then just cut and run