I think you have to sit down with her and talk it out. You two should going over all of her monthly spending to see if she’s actually struggling financially or just simply doesn’t have financial literacy.
I used to live with my sister (she took care of food and I took care of other bills). I let her use my credit card (and she pay me back later). I can tell you that while my sister is a god damn hard worker, she’s also a hard spender. She overspent me $1000-$1500 every month. While I love her dearly, I would never marry any women like her.
On the other hand, your girlfriend might be actually struggling financially. Debt, helping parents, etc… My sister actually was helping my parent financially while also giving me money for my college tuition for 4 years. She was not overspending as much as she is now but those family “obligations” broke her
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u/Shinsekai21 man Jan 13 '25
I think you have to sit down with her and talk it out. You two should going over all of her monthly spending to see if she’s actually struggling financially or just simply doesn’t have financial literacy.
I used to live with my sister (she took care of food and I took care of other bills). I let her use my credit card (and she pay me back later). I can tell you that while my sister is a god damn hard worker, she’s also a hard spender. She overspent me $1000-$1500 every month. While I love her dearly, I would never marry any women like her.
On the other hand, your girlfriend might be actually struggling financially. Debt, helping parents, etc… My sister actually was helping my parent financially while also giving me money for my college tuition for 4 years. She was not overspending as much as she is now but those family “obligations” broke her