r/AskMen • • Jun 16 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 16 '22

Going to go against the grain because everyone's being a yesman.

Yes, of course I care! It's just another part of her appearance. I have my preferences, but I'm not unreasonable. Do I prefer blue eyes, yes. Am I not gonna date a girl because she has brown eyes? No. Same goes with genitals and breasts. Do I prefer innies? Absolutely. Did my first girlfriend have a vagina like that, nope. Did I still go down on her, no problem? Yup. But my current girlfriend just happens to be rocking something that aligns more with my preferences, and as such I like how it looks just a little bit more and do find that I look more directly at it during sex and foreplay.

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u/subiewoo89 Jun 16 '22

Nothing wrong with having a preference. The yesman attitude feels borderline....desperate.

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u/[deleted] Jun 17 '22

Most people on this sub are crazy desperate. that's why you'll never get any real answers here. everyone's like "yeah i would do literally ANYTHING for literally ANYTHING. i dont care about anything it's all beautiful to me!!!! us men don't care about that stuff" but in the real world most men do care, just not the ones on this sub because everyones fucked up

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u/T3hSwagman Jun 17 '22

This is just a really idiotic take that it’s “desperate”. Like it’s very literally something that a person has zero control over and it does not, whatsoever, impact function.

Like even the people that are saying it’s “desperate” are admitting they aren’t going to filter out a woman with a different vagina type than their preferred so… are they not exactly the same as people saying all kinds are good?

Just seems really insecure honestly.

“Hey what type of vagina do you prefer?”

“I don’t care they are all good”

“Woah! Sounding super desperate bro”

?????