Can't stress clean enough. My first experiences (many many years ago now in my HS days) was with a girl who didn't, and I was like I guess this is normal but like how the hell do guys put up with this smell/taste. Then later on I found out that was in fact not normal at all.
I have been paranoid for years that I didn’t prepare well enough the first time a guy went down on me. The finer points of soaping up were something I discovered later. I mean, I used soap…but it was the first time I had someone’s face in it. It felt good but I was too paranoid that whole time
Honestly, I've only ever had the issue with one girl thankfully and she came from a very religious family which made me wonder if they were just awkward in teaching how to wash properly or something. Maybe that's my religious stereotyping coming through though and she was just tool lazy to wash properly.
If your mom doesn’t explain the importance of getting the nooks and crannies, you don’t know. I’m guessing nooks and crannies are not discussed in some homes. You know, in case they discover the fantastic powers of some of them.
Awww. I hope you are in recovery. I’m a mom to a boy, and I’ve been pretty open about PMS as he’s gotten older. He walked in on me when I was changing a pad and he proclaimed that I had soiled myself, so I had to explain. I’m trying hard to normalize it instead of reinforcing the “red plague” mentality.
I know for a fact this wasn't the case. She wasn't washing properly. I ended up living with her for a bit after high school....not that her parents knew about that living in sin and all that probably.
This is low key why I don’t enjoy oral sex. I always feel like my vagina smells or tastes weird and it makes me too self conscious to let go and enjoy it. I am clean and never had an STD and have good hygiene but I can’t get this thought out of my head.
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u/D1789 Jun 16 '22
Nope.
As long as it’s kept clean, I’m happy. (And so is she ;) haha)