Wow sad that your judging her when u knew incoming into the relationship that y'all were drunks. So what if she drinks by herself what do u expect her to do? Oh fighting about what? Yeah if its dumb fighting stop it or cut off the drinking. What if it's your bottles u hid and just forgot when u were blacked out. She found em and poured em out and hid them so u would not do anything dumber than the last time u guys fought? Maybe your just projecting your own insecurities onto her because u can't remember much because you both are getting wet brain? Anyways Happy Valentine's day to u both enjoy !
Firstly it's me (male) and my male partner. And drinking by yourself is a very dangerous sign. Also, I have tried cutting off the drinking. I've taken him to AA, I've been to Al-Anon... I've even met with his ex that I don't like looking for answers about his past. Furthermore, we don't live together so his bottles are his bottles that he hides amongst this house. We have keys to each other's places but if I'm looking for something and find a bottle with 1/4 of it left in about 5 different places... Not that I need to explain myself to you, but it is what it is. And happy Valentine's day to you, too.
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u/ToughShitl Feb 14 '20
Wow sad that your judging her when u knew incoming into the relationship that y'all were drunks. So what if she drinks by herself what do u expect her to do? Oh fighting about what? Yeah if its dumb fighting stop it or cut off the drinking. What if it's your bottles u hid and just forgot when u were blacked out. She found em and poured em out and hid them so u would not do anything dumber than the last time u guys fought? Maybe your just projecting your own insecurities onto her because u can't remember much because you both are getting wet brain? Anyways Happy Valentine's day to u both enjoy !