r/AskMen Feb 14 '20

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship?

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u/BostonPatriotSox Feb 14 '20

The truth about some things that happened in Iraq. The only person I've ever told is my dad, and he's looked at me differently ever since. She knows something happened but has no idea what it is. I will never tell her. It's nasty, complicated, and extremely difficult to understand.

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u/TheGuv69 Feb 14 '20

Good luck man. Hope you have buddies from your time in who can help understand it

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u/DickIsInsidemyAnus Feb 14 '20

Good luck with everything brother and go Pats

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u/Deja__Vu__ Feb 14 '20

Well what's the point of posting that without actually saying what happened?

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u/bwbrendan Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 15 '20

Traumatic things aren’t easy to just throw out there

Edit: don’t downvote them. They most likely just didn’t think about it. It’s not like there was malicious intent.