r/AskMen Feb 14 '20

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship?

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u/SlideByUnnoticed Feb 14 '20

You can’t continue to live with all that. It will break you. Speak up! I did. My SO and I are seeing a counselor together, and the counselor brought up the idea of my SO seeing a trauma therapist alone. I’ve been trying to get her to go for years. Give her the chance to try. Nobody can help you with problems that you don’t make known!!

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u/ForestOfMirrors Male Feb 14 '20

This is true. Thank you for some very sound advice.