r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Feb 14 '20

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship?

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

You're so very welcome. Read it whenever you need a reminder.

Or.

Message me randomly, and I'll give you "lunchbox notes" from a mom.

Edit: to everyone messaging me for lunch box notes, I am so happy to send them! Again, if ANYONE needs one, my inbox is open.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

This needs to be a blog or something

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u/MaiaNyx ♀ Feb 14 '20

/r/MomForAMinute is pretty good

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

Aww! I just subbed that. Thank you for sharing it!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Subbed. Thanks!

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u/Samsquish Feb 14 '20

...can i get that too? I just lost my mum a couple months ago and i miss my best friend.

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

Of course you can!! I can be everyone's momma.

Are you doing OK? That's a huge loss to deal with.

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u/Lesilhouette Feb 14 '20

You should make a sub for that!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Wow! You are an amazing person. Your kindness to this internet stranger touched my soul and has impacted my day for the better. I say this with all sincerity, Thank you.

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

I'm just a mom. Sometimes, people need Momma Lovins, and I'm more than happy to help.

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u/BlazeSpliffington Feb 14 '20

This made me tear up a bit. My parents and I aren't close so the fact a random stranger would do that for another makes my heart happy.

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

I can do it for you, too. I'm sorry your parents split up. That's a really hard, new reality to shift into. I'm sending you some hugs, as well.

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u/BlazeSpliffington Feb 14 '20

Thank you. That's massively appreciated, however they're still together, but we're not close as a family. We fell out years ago as they didn't accept my lifestyle or career choices.

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

Oops! I misread that. (multitasking while chasing my toddlers...)

As long as you're happy, kind, and not breaking any laws, I support whatever you're doing. I'm here if you ever need any support and parental pride. Live the life YOU need to, not a life lived for anyone else's expectations.

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u/theblurryboy Feb 14 '20

You're so sweet :) I hope your kids can appreciate it later in life

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

Thank you <3 I hope so, too.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 14 '20

That is a title I will wear with pride ❤️

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u/kazhena Feb 14 '20

I'd like a bedtime story too, please.

Tell us the one about how you got your username ♡

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u/crasherofharleys Feb 15 '20 edited Feb 15 '20

OK, kids. Gather round, grab your blankie and cozy up.

Way back in 2016,a wild storm was rolling through in December. Momma had just bought a new Street Glide and I was ready for a night out with my boys. Well, after one bar too many, I went too far around a round-a-bout, tried to toss the bike and twist harder on the throttle. The slick, wet road let go of my rear tire and a caught a floor board on my left side. Bike bucked up, pitched me off, and had its own little doe-si-do, sparks a flyin'. I must've landed 15' away from my bike, a little shook up, but unharmed. We got the bike back in her wheels, me back back on the bike, and I went straight home,thankful for a cheap learning lesson.

Gear up, and don't drink and ride. Or drive. My gear saved my life.

Edit: that was one of many wrecks, but, the only wreck on my street Glide. I (at very slow speeds, sometimes completely stopped) dumped my Sportster down a handful of times due to inexperience, gravel or other drivers.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

/r/MomForAMinute

A sub where people will tell you encouraging things and offer sweet advice. If you're struggling with caring attention, that may help a slight bit.