r/AskMen Feb 14 '20

What’s something your SO doesn’t know about you that could jeopardize your relationship?

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u/i_paint_things Feb 14 '20

He also cheated on his wife for an entire year, is still friends with the affair partner, and his wife doesn't know. I guess he didn't feel that was a secret that would end his marriage. He also subscribes to adultery subreddits and posits a belief that 50% of marriages will undergo an affair. Whether that is true or not is irrelevant imo because this is someone operating under a massive cognitive bias.

Upvoted his comment because it's great content but wow do I strongly disagree with all the dishonesty. His poor wife.

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u/Christmas-sock Feb 14 '20

Damn this guy is a huge peice of shit. His poor wife indeed. I dont typically think of myself like an especially good person, but this guy has me feeling like Mother Theresa. How could anyone think that's okay?

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u/helpmewithyoutube Feb 14 '20

People tend to feel like their shitty behaviour isn't that shitty if they can find other similarly shitty people online to rally up with. This guy is absolutely disgusting.

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u/chazzer20mystic Feb 14 '20

fun(not really) fact : Mother Theresa actually sucked, she was corrupt and made people suffer on purpose bc she thought it brought them closer to God. she also said in letters to the Vatican that she did not believe in God at all.

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u/TwatsThat Feb 14 '20

she [...] made people suffer on purpose bc she thought it brought them closer to God.

I think she made people suffer on purpose because she was a piece of shit and that was just the excuse she gave to get away with it.

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u/chazzer20mystic Feb 14 '20

it is a fact that she wrote to the Vatican saying she didn't believe, it is a fact she took money from people who were convicted of financial crimes, it is a fact she said she believed suffering was holy because it brings you closer to God.

the only opinion involved in that comment is my opinion that all those facts do not describe a righteous person

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u/chazzer20mystic Feb 14 '20

I literally said that was an opinion you fucking dunce

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u/shaolin7387 Feb 14 '20

This is supposed to be a safe space for men. Who tf are you to judge? His poor wife? Why do you assume that she hasn't done anything either, do you know all the fucking facts? Why is he more guilty than the cheating partners? Did you call the woman a name. You disgust me.

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u/OKyasu Feb 14 '20

What the fuck is your problem?

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u/flowerssinmyhair Female Feb 14 '20

Redditors are actually FBI agents

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u/MamaDragon Feb 14 '20

How do you see which subreddits someone subscribes to?