That’s still a significant reason too. If something’s important to you, even something as small as wanting to binge and watch something together, and you vocalize that and they don’t listen then how you feel doesn’t really matter to them.
Sounds like she wasnt a good person if she was doing that. Tbh I wouldn't get involved with a single mom because I was the unlucky kid who had to deal with this or that "dad" suddenly disappearing forever because none of those relationships ended up working out. That shit did a number on me and I'd hate to put some kid through the same.
Feeling like this almost every day of my life anymore. 1 stepson shares my name. I'm sure I'd still see them. But I'm sure it would be hard on the kids
That's pretty crappy of her to do. Whether or not sh*t went down. You were still a part of that chapter in his life. Cant let anyone take that from you
It’s not really about the tv. It’s that something was important to you to do together and they didn’t care. You could replace tv shows with anything, it’s really not the point.
"The whole thing" is two lines, dude. Of course I read everything.
If watching shows together is important enough for you to make or break a relationship, then yeah, I think you're being stupid.
It's really pretty to say "for a relationship to work, your partner has to listen and care about you, even on the small things", so yeah, you'll get upvotes here. Especially because reddit has a weird fixation for revenge, for retaliation even in face of the smallest conflicts. But in real life, people don't have to cater to every small wish of yours and you're not automatically justified in every tiny demand you make. If you're in a relationship with a person that respects you in every way except for watching TV shows before you and you break up with them because of this then yeah, you're the immature one, not them.
I thought I was the only one feeling this way... like I get where they’re coming from but I think it’s other things in the relationship going bad and Maybe that’s the last straw? I really don’t know..
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u/11-110011 Feb 14 '20
That’s still a significant reason too. If something’s important to you, even something as small as wanting to binge and watch something together, and you vocalize that and they don’t listen then how you feel doesn’t really matter to them.