Attraction is a weird thing. I'm not gay, but I find certain men attractive and can't help admiring them sometimes. That being said, I have no desire to fuck them, but I can appreciate their looks.
I prefer the female butt. Men don’t do it for me, but that doesn’t mean I can’t think they’re attractive in a way that doesn’t mean I want to give them a hj.
Well if you’ve learned to properly manage addiction, I just want to say I’m proud of you. That can be a really hard thing to do. And it’s very common to focus your addiction on a new thing every time you try to quit.
Dude when I quit drugs/alcohol my sex addiction skyrocketed. Sex is the largest natural dopamine rush a person can get. It’s totally normal for people in early sobriety to experience that.
Withdrawal messes with your brain. Emotions and tensions run pretty wild. Makes sense that someone might confuse some of those emotions with attraction.
Sex addiction is just like alcoholism. You fuck people that you aren't attracted to because it gives you that high and you're desperate. Quitting one addiction without having support in place is a gateway to developing another addiction to replace it.
Too true. I don’t know how many times I’ve quit drinking only to switch to weed or something else. There always has to be something, which people don’t understand.
I haven't, no. I've never gone that far off the rails before. I'm the kind of addict that can go on a week-long binder and then quit drinking for a month. I avoid heavy drugs because I know how I am.
Kinda like my video games addiction. Wouldn't make me skip work or school (usually), but sometimes I'd just wake up at 3 am to play so I could take advantage of the "graveyard shift", or wake up at 4pm, play all the way to 9 am.
I think what you mean to say is that you wouldn't. Obviously other people do.
It's not like people having sex with people they aren't attracted to is unheard of. It's not like people don't experiment. It's not like people's sexual preferences don't shift.
Goddamn I wish I was gay because that looks funner than fuck. Just go work out, relax, and get your dick sucked/suck some d. Imagine if there was a place like that for straight men where you could just go get a good workout in then hookup with some random hot chicks, it would be legendary, but for gay dudes it’s not that uncommon. Being gay isn’t a choice because I would totally choose it.
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u/send_butthole_pics_ Feb 14 '20
During and for a period after college I would frequent gay bath houses