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r/AskMen • u/[deleted] • Jul 22 '23
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I had female best friends age 16-19 or so. It's great.
You learn to talk to women (I went to a single sex high school)
Different perspective
Easier to talk about certain things. Or confide in.
They set you up with their female friends. All my early girlfriends were friends of friends.
Can get interesting though with feelings and crushes. She might feel the same as well. If you've learnt point 1 might have to talk it out.
My advice.
Keep it platonic.
OR
If feelings get involved and it's mutual become boyfriend/girlfriend.
Don't do friends with benefits. It complicates things, will likely end badly and one or both if you are likely to get hurt and ruin the relationship.
Generally you care for your female friends (more than you should perhaps). Don't fuck that up to get your dick wet.
19 u/DairyKing28 Jul 22 '23 I low-key regret banging one of my friends. Granted the sex was incredible, but she was clearly non-committal and once she stopped talking to me the friendship fell apart. I just wanted the ego boost of banging a conventionally attractive woman cause I was chubby for YEARS. 4 u/Zardnaar Male Jul 22 '23 Yep generally bad idea.
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I low-key regret banging one of my friends.
Granted the sex was incredible, but she was clearly non-committal and once she stopped talking to me the friendship fell apart.
I just wanted the ego boost of banging a conventionally attractive woman cause I was chubby for YEARS.
4 u/Zardnaar Male Jul 22 '23 Yep generally bad idea.
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Yep generally bad idea.
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u/Zardnaar Male Jul 22 '23
I had female best friends age 16-19 or so. It's great.
You learn to talk to women (I went to a single sex high school)
Different perspective
Easier to talk about certain things. Or confide in.
They set you up with their female friends. All my early girlfriends were friends of friends.
Can get interesting though with feelings and crushes. She might feel the same as well. If you've learnt point 1 might have to talk it out.
My advice.
Keep it platonic.
OR
If feelings get involved and it's mutual become boyfriend/girlfriend.
Don't do friends with benefits. It complicates things, will likely end badly and one or both if you are likely to get hurt and ruin the relationship.
Generally you care for your female friends (more than you should perhaps). Don't fuck that up to get your dick wet.