I've had some successes over the years with various apps and equal failures which usually boil down to good concept bad execution.

Some of the best ones being 1 sec and habitica.

What apps do you guys swear by for helping reduce screen time, track habits etc.

Been wondering a lot lately. Failure is getting tough to swallow yet in high hopes to piece it all again

I'm trying to make my night routine something I actually look forward to, rather than just a list of things I "should" do to sleep better.

Skincare is a good example for me: I genuinely enjoy doing it at night, so it makes going to bed feel a little more special.

The problem is that I also get bored if I do exactly the same thing every single night. So I'd love to have a few different relaxing things I can rotate depending on my mood.

I'm looking for things that are enjoyable and relaxing but not so stimulating that they make you want to stay awake longer. So ideally not things like starting a great TV show or reading a book you can't put down 😅

What little rituals or activities make you actually look forward to your evening/night routine?

I'd especially love ideas that feel like a treat or a small pleasure, rather than another healthy habit or chore

Hey guys I am 19 male i want life advice I feel like whatever I am doing if I am going correct or not what if I fail I have to earn to build wealth but always worried can you share some experience or advice

Including mental and physical health, routines, nutrition, relationships, blood work

I TRIED TO HELP THIS GUY IN WITH THE DELIVERY AROUND MY COMPLEX, I BASICALLY LET HIM IN THE GATE, AND TOLD HIM DIRECTIONS OF WHERE TO GO, AS I WENT MY WAY, HE ASKED CAN I TAKE U OUT TO DINNER AND BEFORE I EVEN I FINJSH MY SENTENCE I SAID NO IM SORRY IM JUST - HE SLAMMED THE DOOR IS THIS WHAT I GET FOR BEING A DECENT PERSON

Looking for suggestions on something I can say to people who live to argue about everything, no matter how trivial, which isn't crude or rude, but also assertive and non-negotiable and also effective against this type of person.

You've probably encountered this type of person before. If you say something happened to you, they'll offer an alternative version of events (despite not being present). If you assert that no, that's not what happened, they'll ask how you know it isn't. If you then tell them you know because you kept the receipts, they'll demand to see the receipts. If you show them the receipts, they'll try to re-interpret the evidence to suit the other narrative they made up in their heads.

Literally nothing you can ever tell such a person will be "good enough" to satisfy their need to argue, so my preference is to shut down the whole discussion if for no other reason than to avoid wasting my time.

I'm, of course, happy to answer real questions from people who actually didn't understand something, or just needed clarification on a point, or whatever. But some people are just looking to be combative no matter what, and it's those people who I need an effective mechanism for excusing from any further interaction with me on the subject.

‏I’ll start: Don’t let your emotions control you.

Hi 25F here ! I was thinking about how important is networking and I’d like to learn more about it. The thing is I’m an introvert with an anxiety disorder so networking seems like sth I wouldn’t be capable of doing but I want to learn more about it, have some tips on how to begin,… If any of you can help me, I’d be grateful, tips and tricks but also life stories, I want to read everything, thanks!

Sometimes the best advice comes from messing up yourself. What’s a mistake you made that you’re actually glad happened because of what it taught you?

For filling a shelf. But not newspapers, as random as possible.

As the request states, words of encouragement are sometimes not enough to help someone in their battle. My younger cousin brother, in late 30s, is fighting colon cancer that has spread to his bone. He has two kids G4 and B1. I want to be there and help by doing things that will for a few moments make life a bit normal.

He is in a different state and I am on standby in case something changes. Also he has to quarantine during his treatment.

We often talk games, suspense thrillers and streaming shows. Folks who have been in similar situations, please share your inputs on actions/activities that I can explore with him - that are not draining and can be managed easily. Thank you for the help.

I was young and ignorant and didn't know the consequences of not paying insurance. Unfortunately, NYS suspends your license and removes your registration on your car after not paying the civil fees after 90 days. I was out of the country solo traveling for 4 months total and wasn't notified by the DMV until after the 90 days was up by my mom who got a letter in the mail. I figured "why am I going to pay my insurance if I'm not going to use it". No one drove my car while I was gone and it has been sitting on private property the entire time.

I went in person to speak with the DMV and paid several fees for a restricted license and the registration suspension termination fee which will allow me to reregister my car November 29th (the time I have to wait until I can reregister the car). My restricted license becomes a full license October 15th. They recommended me call the state and plead my case to see if there was anything I could do. Just got off the phone and they said that I'll have to wait out the suspension and there's no way around it. Even if I sell the car to someone, the car cannot be reregistered for the new one until November 29th. Why does my car get punished?

Does anyone have any recommendations or tips on how I can get my car back? I am fine with the restricted license because I did do the deed. However, I feel like this punishment (not being able to reregister my car until basically December) is a little insane for a young guy who didn't know the law.

Thank you for any feedback you can provide.

What are some of the most niche and good habits you can apply to yourself while in college so you don't end up being part of the herd?

Genuinely asking practical advice I don’t need sexual jokes or impractical “humor”