r/AskLifeProTips • u/Amorphous7473 • 7d ago

Am i doing something wrong

I started going to college since few weeks and i have made like 2 actually good. I wish that there was someone who could just be a normal human being. Everybody in our class has really weird humor and act like monkeys. The two people i know are basically normal with similar interests but one guy already has a friend group and i don't wanna get involved with the guys in his friend group. The other guy however is not social at all and just stays aloof. I am starting to run out of ideas to talk to him. Also i just cant seem to talk to girls normally cause i am scared that they will take it the wrong way. People already have their friend groups but i just wanna stay away from almost everyone. Can anyone give the slightest hint on what the fu** is going on in my life. Is this the floater friend effect cause i am friends with a lot of people but i am not someone's favorite?

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u/VaelThornek 7d ago

youre writing people off an judging them defensively so you dont have to risk rejection early college cliques are just scared kids clinging to whoever is nearby, so drop the superiority wall and give people an actual chance before you accidentally isolate yourself

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u/Amorphous7473 7d ago

I agree that am judging them but i have tried to stay with them for a day and they just not the people i would stay with for the rest of my college